JWs who have been disfellowshipped and have been trying to get back in good graces?

Only jehovah knows the heart . Brothers do not . If one is sincerely trying to return and once again become one of Jehovahs people. He will be able to do so . The brothers will be there to help . If ones do not talk to the Elders though , and let them know they want to be reinstated, Then how are they to know .Just showing good behavior alone will not alert the brothers to the fact that one wishes to be reinstated.