IM having a heartache!!!!?

I'm going to be kind to you because everyone makes mistakes and always will but the ones whom acknowledge their mistakes and attempt to correct are to be forgiven. I have never cheated myself but am currently in my own heartbreak over my husband doing this. I discovered it myself and cannot tell you how sickening the feeling is, I think if you were up front instead of him finding out on his own it is 10 times better and your guilt will diminish eventually. Don't expect sympathy or understanding because you deserve none. Its plain and simple I beg everyone to be honest cause it hurts. Remember you can forgive but you never forget.